A Star Shines
Bright
Jamie Lee Curtis
finds a focus for her fame
Written by Natali Del
Conte
It shouldn't matter how famous you are to do
charity work. But it does. Most charities prefer A-list
names on their advocacy lists, which is why the
Starlight Starbright Children's Foundation scored so big with Jamie Lee
Curtis.
Curtis is the national spokesperson for
Starlight, an organization that works to improve the quality of life for
children with serious medical conditions by
providing entertainment, education, and family
activities. While Curtis is happy to lend her celebrity to the cause, she
realizes that she may not always be the A-lister for the job. She knows that the
media may
someday prefer
someone younger or hotter for photo ops and
high profile galas and she is a-okay with
that.
"That is so me thing I've told all
the charities I work with," Curtis said in a phone interview just before
Halloween."I said, ‘Look, I want you to keep looking for new people every year
because I know how this business works and there are always going to be good,
new exciting people coming up.' My ego is not involved here. I am
me rely being of service."
Curtis works harder at promoting children's
health-related issues than she does at maintaining her own
fame. In recent years, she has significantly
cut back on acting in order to devote herself to raising her family and working
with nonprofit organizations such as the Starlight and the Children Affected by
AIDS Foundation (CAAF).
She recently finished a movie with Disney
and has said she is "open for business" for other parts. But she will not accept
any role that requires her to travel or be away from her family for an extended
amount of time."There are a lot of
times that they ask
me to go to the East Coast and I'm not able
to," she said."I've got an 11-year-old boy in school and I'm not going to
travel."
Her 11-year-old son Tom is the reason she got involved with Starlight
in the first place. When Tom was 5 years old, he fell and ruptured his spleen.
Curtis rushed him to the hospital and spent a particularly scary night next to
his hospital bed praying for a safe recovery. In between doctors' visits and
nurse check-ups, representatives from Starlight made their own rounds and
brought Tom a Nintendo Ga
meboy to take his
mind off of the pain.
"When my son was injured, besides the skill
of the doctors and the nurses, the single most important
element of his recovery was that he was allowed
to play Gameboy and Nintendo
games while in the hospital," Curtis recalls.
"It completely distracted him from the reason that he was there." Once Tom was
recovered, Curtis reached out to Starlight to volunteer her
time. Her
involvement with the organization snowballed
and she eventually took on the national spokesperson role that she holds
today.
Curtis is certainly busy but she admits that
she is not really balancing budgets or curing disease. She is simply happy to
lend her brand."I'm the mouthpiece," she says in a tone of humility and
frankness."They obviously use my name a lot as
an ambassador for Starlight and what they do. I host parties and the big events
and really just serve as a figurehead. I am the go-to person for any sort of
publicity or public awareness."
This is oversimplifying a bit. She is no
figurehead. She is well informed and serious
when she talks about the challenges that Starlight and CAAF face. She knows that
charitable donations are usually the first thing to go when money is tight in a
struggling economy.
"Starlight and CAAF face the
same challenge that faces every single
nonprofit foundation today, yesterday, and tomorrow and that is money," she
said."For the programs that they run and the initiatives they create on behalf
of children, the constant need is fundraising. They cannot do all of the good
work that is being done without money. As the financial markets
become difficult, money gets harder and harder
to raise. After 9/11, every charitable arm has experienced the ripple effect of
the fact that there is so much need
elsewhere."
Although Curtis is more comfortable than most
when it comes to finances, she
laments that she cannot give all that she would
like to. We asked her if she
sometimes gets
weary running from luncheon to press conference and would rather cut a big check
and stay home with her family
instead.
"I would rather write a really big check but
I'm not in the position to do so," she said."We have a lot of charities we give
to but we also have two kids in school and charity begins at
home. So yes, I would much prefer to write a
very large check but that is what service work is. So every
time you start feeling that you'd rather stay
home, that's just a very selfish mindset. And
I've never gone to something and wish I hadn't
gone." The fundraisers may sound glamorous but Curtis does not seem to lose
sight of the fact that she is working for causes that cause suffering. All too
often she hears another story of another sick child that is tear jerking. She
admits that it is hard to move on with life after hearing about
someone else's unfair lot in life, but she has
a very realistic attitude about it.
"We all have to live with
some level of acceptance," she said."Between
that acceptance and little bit of denial, it lets
me sleep at night. Because if you just say the
word ‘Darfur,' how do any of us sleep at
night?"
Curtis spends most of her advocacy
time on issues related to children, although as
a recovering drug addict, she also does some
work to promote drug-related issues. For the most part, however, children are
her main focus. Curtis has been a bestselling children's author since her first
book,"When I Was Little: A Four-Year Old's Memoir Of Her Youth," was published
in 1993. Since then she has published seven other books, most of which were born
out of her experience raising her two children, Sam and
Anne.
"Writing books was truly an art form for
me," she said."The idea that you make money on
it never entered my mind. It is a passion for
me. It comes
out of a passion that now I make a lot of money doing but I never in a million
years thought I would write anything that would make
me money."
When we caught up with Curtis, she was
preparing for this year's Children Affected By Aids Foundation's 14th Annual
Dream Halloween in Los Angeles. In
ticking off the costumes she has worn over the
years, she alluded to the fact that she prefers these light-hearted events to
the red carpet hooplah that force her into form-fitting gowns."It
means that instead of wearing a gown that I
have to suck my stomach into, I get to wear these great
costumes," she
said.
Pictures of Curtis in her elaborate
Halloween costumes almost always make the grade
for the star pages of People or US Magazine. It is not
unusual to see her dressed as a pirate or a witch, raising money for very good
causes. It all proves that as much as she jokes about dropping like a rock from
the ranks of the A-list, in reality Curtis still has more than enough star power
to make a difference. And that may turn out to be her greatest power of
all.